This Is 30 Gift Guide

My outlook on turning 30 is simple and good. 30 is the same as being 20, but maybe even better, right!? And after all, if it is just as good as my 20s, then I think I will be in pretty good shape.

I lived a full life in my 20s and had a wonderful time. Yet, there are a few things I did or dealt with then, that I am glad I no longer have to conquer or do in life, ever again. Nothing terrible, just things that I am happy to have accomplished, signed and sealed. College, for example, it was a blast, but at the end of the day I don't want to study for midterms or worry about getting my first "real" job, ever again. Zach and I were married at 25. It was the most beautiful day of my entire life and I wouldn't change a thing. That being said, I am so happy I am married and don't ever have to worry about finding the man of my dreams, ever again. I am blessed we nailed the forever thing down in our 20s.

Then, there are the things that I am glad will stay the same from my 20s to 30s. At 21, I was legal to drink champagne, mojitos, and all my favorite libations. The same will happen in my 30s, as I am glad there is not a law to revoke drinking at 31. I traveled around the world in my 20s and I for sure hope that fortune continues. I plan on it. I worked really hard at my career over the last decade, and I plan on doing the same for the next ten years, no matter what I end up doing each day. 

So, 30 for me is about continuing to live and love life and build dreams. I want to grow a bigger family with my husband, explore new places, and find a forever home that I can put as much wallpaper and hang as many plants from the ceiling as I desire. With all those additions to the things that continue from my 20s, I am projecting my 30s to be the best years yet. Cheers to 30! Here is my birthday gift guide for anyone that is turning 30, 20, or older! All are based on the thoughtful presents my loved ones gifted me this year. xo RCN

 

Gifts For Him

If you don't normally shop a stocking for the guy in your life, maybe this year is the year to do it. I find shopping for stockings to be the most fun. It's a great way to search and discover the perfect little things that remind you of everything about your guy, and likely things about him you love. This year I got a head start by picking things up along my travels throughout the year. Hmmm, now I have to remember where I hid all the little gems. I'll find them, but in the mean time I will shop for some additional stocking stuffers and bigger gifts. Hopefully, this list gives you some ideas for your special someone, whether you need $10 ideas for the stocking or a bigger, slightly pricier present. Guys can be the toughest, so here goes it! xo RCN

Suit Supply cotton pocket square, $29

At some point in a man's life he needs to dress up. Some do every day, others maybe once in a year. Regardless, a pocket square completes the suiting look. Don't go overboard with this, especially if this is for a first time pocket square wearer. White and cotton is all he needs to look on point.

J.Crew Factory boxer shorts, Mallard ducks, $6.50

Always include underwear in the stocking. J.Crew outlet has great options, online and in store. Pick up a fun novelty pair each year. Z got Labradors last year and is likely getting Mallards this year. Hope he isn't reading...

WindPouch inflatable hammock, windpouch.com, $79.95

The Windpouch is one of my new fascinations. You may have seen youtube videos about how to blow these up. Click HERE if you have not. These rather large, couch-like, blow up seats, weather well on sand, concrete, water or carpet. These are great for any guy that beaches, tailgates, floats in a pool, or has a friend crash at their studio apartment, last minute.

Billions: The First Season (DVD), Target, $22.99

Looking for a new favorite television show obsession? Look no farther. Both Z and I love this showtime series. It is a thrilling story line involving a big time hedge fund manager battling against federal prosecutions from the US Attorney for the Southern District of NY. New season starts on Feb. 19th, so you will have a good two months to file through season one before the start of season 2.

 

Masterbuilt Sportsman Elite 30" Propane Smoker, Cabela's, $89.99

Smokers vary in price range, so you can definitely spend more than just the $89.99 ticket on this one, but either way it's a thoughtful gift for the griller-barbequer you know. My Dad and Father in Law both use theirs on a relatively normal, (and surprising) basis. I have never had such great tasting ribs. Do your entire family a favor with this one.

The Wall Street Journal, 6 month print and digital subscription, $99

Subscriptions are always great ideas. The Wall Street Journal covers all the finance and stock he could care to read about. The $99 is well worth all the news and information he will fill his brain with, in just 6 months time.

Rainbow leather sandals, $52

I am all for the summer gifts in winter. I mean, we all go on vacation at some point. Two months from now or six months from now, your guy can use a nice pair. Rainbows are the best (both for men and women). They wear wonderfully over time and never hurt your feet. Really, never. Go for the leather option. They come in a few different neutral shades as well. 

Vineyard Vines cotton jersey 1/4 zip pullover, Vineyard Vines, $98.50

Guys look handsome in 1/4 zip pullovers. They dress up and down, so they are a great outfit pieces for day to night and office to dinner. Vineyard Vines offers great seasonal colors. They fit well on multiple body types, bigger and broad chested or thin and wide shouldered. 

Yeti Rambler Colster, Beverage holder, $29.99

The Yeti tumbler was recommended in my girl's wish list, so for the guy I will suggest the Rambler Colster. This keeps a beer can or a Coke, cold as can be. Buy two, and keep one for you.

Bonobos made to order dress shirts, $98

Bonobos digital gift card, $25+

Bonobos is a wonderful menswear brand. Their dress shirts are good quality and better yet, they are custom made to fill your desire for collar size, color, fit, etc. If you know what your man wants, select for him, if not...give him a gift card!

Patagonia Fisherman's rolled beanie, $29

Stocking caps and beanies are just one of those things all guys wear and need. Patagonia is probably one of the coolest brands out there right now, so go with a simple cap and shop Patagonia. All guys can pull off this look.

Weber Smokey Joe Gold Portable Charcoal Grill, Home Depot, $39.99

Grills come to mind when I think of guys. And it's quite possible your man may not have a portable one for camping, picnicking, tailgating, or just chilling on a small patio. Weber portable grills are great for the outdoor guy or one that is on the go and always wanting food. At the next football pre-game, he can cook the burgers.

Lagavulin 16 Year Old Scotch, 750ml bottle, grandwinecellar.com (or most liquor stores), $79.99

For all the Scotch drinkers, Lagavulin is a great choice. The 16 year is a bit' peaty. If he likes that, then this is a highly recommended scotch from those that drink it.

Crate and Barrel Direction 9oz Double Old Fashion glasses, sold individually, $9.95

I adore beautiful glasses for cocktails so why shouldn't your handsome be sipping from class as well. If you are in love with a gin drinker, Manhattan maker, straight on the rocks kind of guy, then chances are he will like these Crate and Barrel glasses. Not only do they have a masculine, rich look, but they have a heavy feel which is nice to hold in your hand.

Saturdays Surf NYC T-shirt, saturdaysnyc.com, $40

In my opinion, Saturday Surf is one of the coolest menswear brands!! If you live in NYC or even shop Nordstrom, you may be familiar. Saturdays Surf is a surf brand based out of the city. The shop in Manhattan has a coffee shop inside and you can shop boards, wax or clothing - a pretty unique shop for NYC.   The T-shirts are comfy and simple, something most guys like in a tee. If he doesn't know the brand, I guarantee he will grow to love.

yurbud Hybrid Wireless earphones, $79.99

Yurbuds are the best earphones. I use my pair everyday. They come in a small pouch, great for travel, and also come with multiple size coverings for all ear sizes. If he is tech savvy, or has the new iphone, your beau will appreciate the wireless and bluetooth functionality.

Nike Free RN running sneakers, Nike, $100, $140 for customized coloring

Sneakers are usually the guy "go-to" shoe. If your man is anything like Zach, he likely wears them whether he is running in the gym, or walking to the store. I am a Nike loyalist, so no surprise this is my pick. The Nike Free RN shoe comes in loads of colors, bright or understated. If you feel like splurging a bit' and want to get personal, Nike offers customization for $140.

Weathertech cargo truck liner for cars and trucks, ex. $109.95 for a Jeep Grand Cherokee (behind second row seating) trunk liner

I couldn't make a list without something car related. This is the more pricey gift on the list, but so, so great. The plastic shell liners fit accustom to each car. All you have to do is go to the Weathertech website and select the year, make, and model of the car. The site will have what you need for a trunk liner, or floor liners for both front and back seats. They remove easily and keep the car spot clean. He will love this!

Rochester Shoe Tree Company for J.Crew suede and nubuck cleaner, $8

He probably has a shoe shine kit, but maybe not a shoe care cleaner for nubuck or suede. Nubuck and suede are materials that also need care, like leather. Gift a cleaner that will help his entire shoe assortment last through the year - or longer.

Sushi For Dummies, play.google.com (or any bookstore), $9.99

Books are a must in the stocking. I gave Zach this one a few years ago, but we never put it to use until this past Thanksgiving weekend. The entire Nord family hung in one night and we all made sushi together. The book helped with planning, and we had the BEST time. Buy this book, and plan a date to do it. I promise, you will enjoy it!

Zirh skincare starter kit, Bloomingdales, $59

Skincare can be a tough purchase for guys. Ultimately, it is a personal purchase. However, I took a guess with ZIRH, for Z, a few years ago and he has been using it ever since. If your guy is a little more rugged, shaves often, or has tougher skin that he wants to keep soft, try this starting kit. Invest in larger quantities of specifics later, once he knows if he likes it and it works on him.

Shinola medium leather journal, Shinola, $48

For the writer, or business professional. How about a nice leather journal? Shinola is an awesome brand, all made in the USA. Their leather goods are classic and beautiful in craft. The notebook is one of the lower priced items in the collection, yet equally as artful as the wallets and watches. Surely. this is a great addition to his briefcase or bedside table.

GoFit cold roller massager, REI, $29.95

For anyone that works out or just gets stressed out, this may help. This small massage roller fits great in the stocking and comes from a great source, REI. After a lift workout, run, or long day at the office, your man will appreciate this one.

Fireside Panini Press, Terrain, $42

Mix fire and sandwiches together and I think you have a perfect pair. Dudes love a hot sandwich. So... for your camper, pyro, or foodie, this is a fun idea!

La Colombe Bleu Organic coffee beans, 12oz, $15 (all 12oz coffee ranges from $12-$15)

La Colombe started in Philly, and has spread to the burbs, NYC, Boston, Chicago and is still expanding. There is a reason for that, because it is SOOO good. For any and all coffee drinkers, there are a variety of roasts and flavors. I put a bag in Zach's stocking each year and think I will try out the Bleu Organic this Xmas.

Leatherman Wingman 14 pc multi-tool, $39.85

You can never have enough tools. Multi tools are great for the tool belt, keeping in the garage, and also in the car. This 14pc tool grouping has more than what he needs to fix or make whatever it may be.

 

Wish List 2016

There are a million, and one, wonderful, gift ideas out there. I don't know about you, but I do not always have the time to make it out shopping in stores and I also do not have a million and one dollars to spend. Here is my list of some of the best gifts out there this season, all available online. Perfect for today, Cyber Monday.  Better yet, everything is between $20 and $80. There is something for those that love fashion, the beach, partying, art, animals, food and more. Here are my picks for you and me. Click the images below to lead you direct to the retail site for happy shopping. xo RCN

Serena and Lily Fouta beach towel, $48

Serena and Lily has the most stylish and classic beach towels. It doesn't have to be summer for a great summer gift. Perfect for her to pack away for winter vaca or when summer returns.

Kate Spade cookie jar, $40

How adorable is this Kate Spade cookie jar? Perfect for the kitchen in a girls pad or for your friend that always loves the cutest home accessories.

J.Crew slippers, $55

I have never been a slipper girl, but last year I saw these cute patterned slippers and added them to my list. I received a pair of the leopard print ones and this year I am loving the plaid option. The comfortable faux fur lining is to die for! You won't want to take your feet out of them.

Maggie Louise Confections gourmet chocolate box, $38

Maggie Louise Confections has quite the trendy selection of chocolate options. The themed boxes and made to order candy groupings are as stylish as can be. For your sweet tooth friend, consider these beautiful designed confections.

Harper + Oldham cactus tray from Fishs Eddy, $31.95

If you have never shopped at Fishs Eddy, you must check it out. The breadth of assortment and originality in design for the kitchenware and serving dishes at this store, is unreal. Currently I am loving the Charly Harper + Todd Oldham collaboration. Specifically, this adorable cactus and armadillo retro looking kitchen tray.

Dogeared Bee Sweet gold dipped necklace, $58

When it comes to jewelry this Christmas I love the simple dainty necklaces that you can find pretty much anywhere, but I love the meaningful three wishes collection from Dogeared best. Each necklace has a statement message that reminds us that there is good in this world. Enjoy shopping for a necklace with the personality to match your gift receiver.

H2O+ Oasis hydrating skin care, $28.80

For beauty and skincare lovers... H20+ has the most fabulous hydrating cream. I have used this cream for years. It feels refreshing like aloe and I never break out. This has helped my skin stay hydrated through many NYC winters. Perfect for anyone living where it gets cold and simply those that love their skin soft and clear all year. 

Rifle Paper Co. recipe tin box, $34.95

It is tradition in my family to gift a recipe box with many already filled out recipe cards for family bridal showers. The gift idea is great for any time of year, not only for brides to be. All you need are good recipes to share and a really cute box. Rifle Paper Co. has a couple of my favorite tin boxes at the moment. Shop at Anthro or The Paper Source.

30oz Yeti Tumbler,$39.99

The best gift ever. Yeti keeps drinks cold for hours, days really. Imagine ice in this tumbler sitting in a hot car for a day. Well, the ice will still be there when you return to the vehicle. I use my tall tumbler glass at the pool and a Yeti cooler on the beach, always. Simply the best.

Small or Medium National Park Pendelton dog coat, $49, Large coat, $59

Ethel is adorable and looks even cuter when wearing a jacket or jersey. Pendelton has collaborated with the National Parks for this striped dog jacket. A gift for your dog is a gift for you! 

Wynwood Coloring Book, $25

Coloring books are fun for even the non-artist. Coloring is like therapy. My Mom gave me the Wynwood coloring book when I moved to Miami. The art reflects the real art all throughout the Wynwood neighorhood in Miami. Very personal and fun. Add a nice box of Prismacolor pencils and you are still looking at a $50 and under gift.

Smathers & Branson needlepoint collegiate key chain, Penn State and many other University logo options available, $28.50

My BIL Alex recently gifted a Smathers & Branson key chain to my SIL Courtney for her birthday. I thought, "...what a fabulous idea!" For the one in college or the one that still wishes to be, a collegiate key chain is personal and useful. Smathers & Branson has pretty big list of Universities in their product assortments. I love the needlepoint effect in combination with the logo, very cool.

Topshop Leigh jeans, $70

Jeans are difficult to buy and find for people. However, my favorite jeans from Topshop, Leigh cut and fit, are a favorite of a few other girls I know. We are all built slightly different, so that means the jeans are a five star in my book. They come in petite, regular, tall, and maternity. The super tight and elastic makeup helps fit your body in all the right places and really slim you out. I highly recommend this style. I am digging any with the cutout knees.

Coach leather luggage  tag, $65

Have you seen the dinos all over the Coach windows or website? I have, and I love them! I am sure you have a fun and corky friend that travels and would appreciate a dino luggage tag. Beautiful leather, rich color, and a cute icon will help identify any bag on the luggage carousel.

Chanel Rouge Coco lipstick, $37

My favorite lipstick is Chanel Rouge Coco. If your shopping for a girl that is more spunky and likes a punch of color, go with a shade of red or bright pink. If she is more understated and traditional, pick a lighter or more natural color that will pair nicely with her skin-tone. A designer lipstick is a special and thoughtful gift that makes a girl feel glamorous. YSL and Chanel are both wonderful lipstick options.

Alo yoga capri pants, $78

Alo is by far my favorite capri workout pant brand right now. This style fits like a glove, true to size and also comes in many pattern or solid options. Shop online at Alo or Nordstrom.

Madewell blanket scarf, $68

Blanket scarves are all the rage and have been since last holiday, too. It's key to update a girl's collection with the newest and greatest. Perfect for traveling or cozying up indoors and out. Madewell has some wonderful plaid, boho, and classic options.

Sun Bum Day Tripper package,$19.99 

For all the beach and sun lovers out there, Sun Bum is the best smelling coconut lotion and sunscreen I have ever tried. The lip balm comes in multiple flavors like banana and mango, yum. I use the balm and skin lotion daily and the sunscreen every time I go to the beach. This brand makes me feel beachy and fun. The pack with sunscreen, cool down lotion, and chapstick come together in a pack for only $19.99!

Poler Stuff backpack, $53.87

Perfect for camping, hiking, beach bumming, or school going. I am in love with Poler bags. I first discovered the brand while shopping in Austin, TX and later I bought one for my safari trip in South Africa. The exterior pockets are wonderful and the seasonally updated color block combinations continue my love for the brand's new designs. 

Linnea's Lights candle, Vetiver scent, $34

I love to burn candles. Mostly, I am a fan of scents that are more natural and have fragrance that remind me of the outdoors. Never too sweet. My favorite scent right now is Vetiver from Linnea's Lights. This is a great candle gift because the packaging is perfect and you only need to add a bow. The candle even comes with a cute little box of matches, attached to the interior of the packaging lid.

Celebrate Everything by Darcy Miller, $30

For the hostess with the mostess. Darcy Miller published Celebrate Everything, just a couple months ago. The book is all about creating the best parties. I want this book under my tree!

Quay Australia sunglasses, $45-$75

Quay Australia has the most trendy and affordable sunglasses for the quality of product. There is something for every girl, silver, metal, black, cat eye, marble, dramatic, colorful, you name it. I am obsessed! You can shop online at Quay, Nordstrom, Urban, and Bloomingdales.

Kelkuzi original animal painting, $50

Art is always a good idea. I prefer actual paintings over prints of art when possible. One of my favorite illustrators, Kelly Oseid, found via instagram @kelzuki, paints small original illustrations of animals. If you have a friend that loves owls, whales, insects, etc., pick up a stylish frame from Homegoods and frame a piece of art. I personally, love this pink beluga. It would look great on my desk in a gold ornate frame.

Anthropologie Granada four piece tumbler set, $48

Everyone can appreciate beautiful glassware. Anthropolgie by far, always has my favorite assortments. This set of four glasses comes in a few colors. I love the silhouette and ridged medallion shapes. Pair with a package of patterned drinking straws and bottle of Belvoir Spiced Winter Berries Cordial to complete the gift.

Henri Bendel hatbox train case, emroidered monogram included. $58

For the hat lover. This striped Henri Bendel hat traveler is an iconic Henri Bendel piece. HB has always been known for their paper hat boxes (also adorable, but no longer available online). This hat box traveler piece is even more perfect with a handle to carry and protective shell. It is always great to travel in style. This makes it even easier to bring along the hats you want, without having to wear four hats on the airplane or crush a few in your suitcase.

Small Box of 50 bite size cupcakes, Baked by Melissa, $55

Food is a great gift to bring along to a holiday party, office crowd, or to send direct to family or friends you unfortunately will not see over the holiday. Baked by Melissa offers the cutest mini cupcake and macaron boxes. The sweets are delish and they are packaged in a beautiful box with a tie dye bow to finish.

Rosemary & Co artist brushes, $24.41

Any artist knows that great paintbrushes are essential pieces in creating beautiful works of art. My youngest sister Shaina, an art student and painting major, recently recommended Rosemary & Co. watercolor brushes. They are good quality and don't break the bank. Pink brushes were released for Breast Cancer Awareness month and they are still available online. 

 

Birdseed owl trio, $24

I mean...these are so stinkin' cute! Love birds? Love the garden or outdoors? Gift this adorable owl birdseed trio and combine with a bird watching pamphlet local to the region your gift receiver lives. You will spend no more than $40 total. Very unique and thoughtful.

Nike Juvenate mesh sneakers, Net-A-Porter, $85

Okay, I lied. This item on the list is not under $80. These Nike Juvenate mesh sneakers are $85. However, the style is often updated with new fashion colors and the older options are marked down. I personally want a pair of gray, which is not currently on sale. Check out some brighter color options at Finish Line if you are interested in spending less than $70. I have two pairs already and I wear them all the time. I think I need them in every color.